Tom asked:


Do you think that you are ready to live the life of the Sugar Daddy ? Are you ready to live life in the fast lane - working long hours to reap the rewards of a high paying career, driving fast cars - luxury roadsters from the world’s most reputable and sought after manufacturers - and of course meeting great women?

If so, take a closer look at the life you are living. A sugar daddy:

1. focuses on establishing himself. This means taking an early interest in education and how to put the information and skills that he learns to work for him;

2. dedicates himself to doing the hard work. This means committing to a job, working long hours and working his way to the top - often becoming successful much more quickly than his peers;

3. sets goals and achieves them. In other words, rather than thinking “Someday, I would like to travel to Asia,” a sugar daddy sets his mind to it. A sugar daddy thinks, “In five years, I want to take a month long trip to Japan; in order to make that happen, I will need to. . .” A sugar daddy makes his list of goals - goals for travel, income, cars, homes and even experiences - and then commits to achieving his goal, one step at a time; and

4. knows that he needs companionship, because no one would want to go through life alone. In the case of a sugar daddy, this companionship often comes in the form of a sugar **** or sugar baby; a beautiful woman - often a bit younger - for whom the sugar daddy can care and take care of.

In other words, becoming a sugar daddy means making a commitment to a lifestyle.

True, this lifestyle comes with wealth and glamour. It’s a lifestyle that lends itself to driving fast cars. It’s a lifestyle that comes with a fashionable home that is stylish inside and out. It’s a lifestyle that is dressed designer clothing and shoes and accented with the right jewelry - a sharp ring and a great watch. But it’s not a lifestyle that comes without a price.

That price is commitment. That price is drive. It means getting the right education. It means finding the right career path. And it means always putting in more than everyone else - sometimes working longer hours, sometimes tackling the more challenging projects because they come with the greatest rewards as wall as being willing to sacrifice relationships for getting to the top.

Though some of those relationships exist within the workplace, some sugar daddies find that relationships outside of the office suffer as well. They maintain friendships, and can make the time they need to get out and spend time with the guys. Some have trouble with dating as well.

This isn’t because there is a shortage of beautiful women. It isn’t because there is a shortage of younger women who do not want to be seen with a great-looking, talented and successful guy. In fact, it’s merely a matter of meeting the right woman - an honest woman, a woman with dreams and goals that mesh well with your own.

Finding that woman is - like all goals of sugar daddies - possible.

Are you focused on achieving your goals? Are you committed to success in all areas of your life - career, home, travel and relationships? Do you want to be stylish, comfortable - and even envied? If so, you may be ready for the life of the sugar daddy.

It’s hard work, but somebody’s got to do it. Many already have - finding that focusing on education and hard work can lead to a rich life, the life that most people only dream of living.



Caroline

Thomas Greenslade asked:


One year, for Father’s Day, my family gave me a book called, “When Daddy Prays,” by Nikki Grimes and Tim Ladwig. One page titled, “Like Him,” shows a boy dressed in daddy’s hat, clothes and shoes, and looking in a mirror. In the mirror’s reflection he sees his daddy dressed in those clothes. To quote some of the lines of the poem “I tip Daddy’s hat back so I can see; His pants would puddle at my ankles; I shuffle down the hall; Daddy turns from the altar, smiles, and waves me over. I drop to my knees and kneel in his shadow. I already know what to say Our Father, whose heart is heaven.” Did you catch that? “Our Father whose heart is heaven…?” Is your son right if he makes that slip of his tongue? “Our Father whose heart is heaven?”

Did you know that the fact that you are a father has not escaped God’s attention? In fact, the whole reason you are a father is because God has chosen you to be one. In Genesis 18:19 God points this out about Abraham. ” For I have chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just, so that the LORD will bring about for Abraham what he has promised him.”

1. “I Have Chosen Him”

The Hebrew word here that is translated “have chosen” also means in Hebrew, “know,” and “acquainted with.” There is a depth to the relationship God has with Abraham, and that Abraham has with God. James 2:23 tells us “he was called God’s friend.” That relationship was the core of his life. The result is that God’s own plan for the ages is meshed together with Abraham’s fathering.

The first poem in “When Daddy Prays” is “A Father’s Prayer.” “May my children see beyond my muscles to your strength May they feel your love in the hollow of my hand. May they hear your voice in the echo of my words.”

How much do you include God? Do you give Him any consideration in your fathering? Is he just an afterthought not even that He is over there, almost separate from you? You acknowledge & touch on Him casually once in a while but really He doesn’t have anything to do with your life?

When God says, “chosen him, so that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just,” you don’t have the option of saying, “No.” God knows you, commands you, and has chosen you to be something very special.

In Malachi 2:15 God explains his reasoning behind marriage and parenting. “Has not the LORD made them one? In flesh and spirit they are his. And why one? BECAUSE HE WAS SEEKING GODLY OFFSPRING…”

Too often we are satisfied with the carnal view of successful parenting. We think we have been successful if our child grows up to be decent, hard working, and still likes to come home.

You must understand something. Your success doesn’t actually have anything to do with how your children turn out. Sometimes godly parents have ungodly children and ungodly parents have godly children. Your success or failure is whether you do or don’t do what He says He has chosen you to do: “…that he will direct his children and his household after him to keep the way of the LORD by doing what is right and just.” You are successful if you have directed your children and wife to keep the way of the Lord by your doing what is right and just.

Generally, in those circumstances, the children follow the Lord as a result, with some exceptions but that we have to leave up to God without really understanding it. You can trace God working through Godly family lines generation after generation. For instance, a pastor I know, John Greening, is the 8th generation of pastors in his family. That line of godly men began way back in the Revolutionary War days of the USA.

2. “That He Will Direct His Children and His household After Him”

God’s command is to stand up and lead your family. Most men prefer for their wives to lead the family in the details and especially in the area of spiritual things. I thank God for something my wife did for me. One day when my kids were still very small, we were discussing the idea of having a “family devotions” time. I made a comment along the line of, “When are you going to start doing it?” She looked me in the eye and said, “That is your job.” I was pretty clumsy starting out, praying with them, reading in a monotone to the kids from Bible story books, Christian story books, and classics. It became a precious time to us. Now years later, hundreds of books later, they look back on it as a very wonderful thing and I do too. My reading did get good, then very good, and really helped me with my delivery as a preacher. It helped me to become a leader in other areas. Especially, it helped my kids.

Dad, God commands you, “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord. (Ephesians 6:4).

Be a dad. Be a guide direct them - chart out the course so they can go even farther, extending your footsteps, and standing on your shoulders.



Gabriel

Adrian J. Slywotzky asked:


My father’s death certificate is a fraud. The family doctor, family friend, long-dead, initiated the cover up. Dr. Blackmer, dressed as always in a dark suit with the sprinkling of dandruff on his bear-like shoulders, stood in that hospital corridor that last night mumbling about pernicious anemia. So this is what he chooses to call the cause of death, “pernicious anemia”. I can only guess at his motives, his competency in not labeling my father an “alcoholic.” Maybe, their friendship got in the way. Often, his friends would cover for him.

But I knew the secret, the secret I did not talk about with my aunts and uncles, the secret I sometimes shared with my brothers who did not want to talk about it — daddy’s drinking, daddy’s death, a union from hell.

Two weeks after my father’s death, Sister Patricia Joseph, my English teacher asked me to step out into the hall in the middle of class. This was an unprecedented action. A tidal wave of embarrassment swept over me as I walked up the aisle and out the door. My classmates’ eyes were riveted on me as I passed. In that deserted corridor, surrounded by metal lockers, she gave me the chance to talk, to let the secret out. I remember her ageless, lined face, her penetrating brown eyes. Amid her hemming and hawing, she had the courage to ask me how was everything at home and was there anything she could do. And I lied. I did what daddy would have wanted me to do — I kept the secret. I said everything was fine.

To me, my father was Prince Charming and I selectively remembered what I wanted to remember, what I needed to remember — his black Irish looks, his camel cashmere jacket, his humor, his many friends, a word game we played where I would try to find a word he didn’t know. I caught him on physiognomy. Words came easily to him; behaviors and actions did not.

In the winter of my sophomore year, my writing began appearing magically in the school newspaper, submitted by my English teacher. There were humor pieces, short essays and a short story in a literary supplement. My father, now lost in a hazy alcohol fog, never read any of this work. I excused him, convinced myself he was too sophisticated to spend time reading a high school newspaper. I had a few mind games of my own.

My father’s sins, like mine, were sins of omission. It was not what he did do; it was what he didn’t do. Benign neglect reflected his parenting style, at best. He had seven sons yet never attended any team sport to watch his sons play. He never went to a school parents’ night or attended a school play. He was at home less and less so I think from necessity we just started signing our own report cards. I was often the parent, the forger.

After the birth of my first child, my bushy-browed pediatrician asked routinely for a detailed family medical history and I lied again. He probed, he pushed, he seemed unsatisfied with my lame answers concerning the cause of my father’s death. I answered as I then believed that my father had died of a “broken heart.” The pediatrician responded sternly that no one died of a broken heart. To this intimidating professional, I could not say my father died from alcoholism. I ran from the shame. A child of television, I carried mental pictures of the Bowery in my head and not the sterile offices of the insurance company where my father worked.

Sometime in the fall of 1983, at the suggestion of a therapist, I began attending Adult Children of Alcoholics meetings. This was not a process I entered willingly. After all, my father had been dead for nearly twenty years. What good could it possibly do me? What was the point? But I went. I went weekly and I went religiously for two years.

Even there in those non-threatening church basements, I still protected him. At the beginning, I left those Wednesday night meetings filled with a religious fervor to change my parenting skills. Our home became a Skinner box. I cracked down on judging, labeling, name-calling, nicknames, sarcasm. I became a pariah of goodness. My children and husband rolled their eyes a lot. I was examining my parenting skills instead of the ones I grew up with.

Gradually, I faced the more painful process of putting my father in the spotlight. It took me a long time to say, “My father was an alcoholic,” and an even longer time to say, “My father was an alcoholic and died from the disease of alcoholism.” There was more shame in that.

There were other sins of omission as well. I felt rumblings of anger towards my father’s siblings, his friends, his business associates for overlooking, discounting or dismissing his alcoholism. What could they do or say? I rationalized. Would it have made a difference? I don’t know. What I wanted them to say to him was a simple “I’m worried about your drinking.” Maybe, “I see your drinking is affecting you.”

How many meetings did I have to go to before I could say “I’m angry with my father?” 50, 60, 100? The Richard Gere character in the movie, Pretty Woman, says, “It cost me $10,000 to say ‘I’m angry with my father.’” Frankly, I thought he got off easy.

Still miracles are out there. A friend’s ex-husband, a lawyer in his 40’s, addicted to alcohol and cocaine, did get sober, but not before he had lost his family, his law practice. He had not seen his daughters for three years. So what finally happened to him? Was it that he had learned that the Massachusetts Bar Association was considering an action against him? If so, I applaud that bar association for doing it the hard way, for confronting one of its own. It may have made the difference.



Julie

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Jacqueline

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Olivia Hunt asked:


“Daddy” by Sylvia Plath is by right considered a magnificent poem about daughter’s relationship with a father. Also it can also be read as an allegory of female yielding and final revolt in a men’s world who have been responsible for all the disasters and wars of the twentieth century. In accordance with this poem women are oppressed and subdued in society by masculine priorities.

The male characters in this poem such as father, teacher, statue, gestapo officer, husband and vampire are created as leading and oppressive. The father appears as a strong, powerful and restrictive - god-like figure. The female character is constrained (‘black shoe/In which I have lived like a foot’) and unable to lead a full life (‘Barely daring to breathe or Achoo’) in his prevailling presence. This oppression is realised by the female character who decides that she must revolt against this male power that reject her control over her life (‘Daddy , I have had to kill you.’) The father is compared with the **** who takes the responsibility for the mass slaughter of Jews (‘I thought every German was you’) and the female character is depicted as the oppressed victim (‘I think I may well be a Jew’). Putting her father on the stage next to the Nazis, at the same time she puts women in the same position as the Jews, being exploited and violated. In this comparative portrayal men have the force to destroy women, to be the reason of their metaphorical deaths all within legitimate limits.

Plath uses the irony while depicting the stereotype of women who like abusive, strong men - ‘Every woman adores a Fascist,/The boot in the face, the brute/ Brute heart of a brute like you.’ – to show the inequality in the relationships between men and women. This irony justifies the male violence as being natural.

The refusal from power via silencing women, particularly seen through the try to articulate the ich (‘I’: It stuck in a barb wire snare./Ich, ich, ich, ich.’) and it shows the subordinate role of women in the men’s world. The poem describes that the real power of the men is to make women give in to the dominant ideology, making their additional part of the natural order of the world. It is usually visible in sado-masochistic images (‘The boot in the face’, ‘And a love of the rack and the screw’) which make women to be responsible for their own additional role.

Women are made so that must be instructed by the wise males (‘You stand at the blackboard, Daddy’). Men are rational, while women are emotional (‘Bit my pretty are heart in two’), who commit ******* when they feel lonely and depressed. However, the female character is watching these unjust relationships, and sees her father-teacher figure as the devil (‘A cleft in your chin instead your foot/But no less a devil for that’). Then the father and husband are are called vampires (‘The vampire who said he was you/And drank my blood for a year’) who must be at last killed with a stake in the heart to return the female character her freedom.

The poem is full of the sense of suffocation felt by the female character towards her father and husband. The poem “Daddy” criticizes the male aggression and depicts men being responsible for all the social injustices. The narrator depicts the discrimination of women but at the end of the poem she points out that females break free of these constraints.



Matthew

melvin polatnick asked:


There is no man as valuable as a man that helps others, and no man is as helpful as the “sugar daddy” It is rare to find a woman who hasn’t met him or hasn’t been helped by “sugar daddy” because he is everywhere. Some say he was created by an unknown force in the universe as a gift to women who are in distress. If that is true we should treat the “sugar daddy” as a “holy man” and hope his presence will be eternal. But there are those that despise him and wish he would go away. There are many reasons for their anger. The main reason is jealousy. A financially insecure young man is sure to be deeply hurt when his woman is taken away from him by a “sugar daddy”. But it is unfair to put the blame on others when his former girlfriend chose what she thinks is best for herself. Another reason “sugar daddies” are not liked is because they choose only the best looking women and disregards the rest. We can’t blame “sugar daddy” if he has good taste and can’t understand what “inner beauty” means. Many of the most attractive women have been wined and dined by “sugar daddy”, some have even married him. The majority of those marriages have been happy ones. A twenty five year old woman who marries a fifty year old guy with a good paying job is a match made in heaven. It is almost sure to last. He will adore her and she will love the well focused attention and the easy life given to her by him.

A man that has worked hard and has becomes financially secure should be respected. It is not easy to rise above poverty in a competitive world. He earned what he has and is entitled to spend his money in anyway he sees fit. Some gamble or drink it away. Others become workaholics to support their family and have little pleasure. But the “sugar daddy” wants to spend his hard earned money in a different way. His greatest pleasure is to be in the company of beautiful young women. And he will use all his money to make that happen. Some see him as a fool or some sort of a joke but he is far from being a stupid person. He has earned his right to be called a “sugar daddy” by years of toil which gave him enough money to spend on beautiful ladies. His only desire is to make love to attractive young women. And he has the right to follow his nature.

Most women find it difficult going with a man that is much older. The main reason for feeling that way is that their friends and family won’t accept the relationship. They think that she should choose a man in her own age range. They would rather see her go with the poor and lazy guys that are available. But an independent woman will make her own decision about the right man for herself. Even if they label her boyfriend a “sugar daddy” he will become her new man. When they see her driven around in a brand new sports car her reputation will be ruined. The neighbors will whisper that she has sold herself out for the almighty buck. But when the neighbors see her beautiful new clothes and the large diamond ring on her finger they will secretly like to change places with her.

Donald Trump is the most famous “sugar daddy” he has dated and married beautiful women who were thirty years younger than himself. His wives and dates were some of the most attractive women in the world. It would be wrong to “bad mouth” him for his lifestyle. He has the perfect right to choose freely whom he dates. Most men would be glad to trade places with him. The majority of women in the world would gladly be his wife. I am sure that if Trump put an ad in the paper that he was in the market for a new wife and that he was accepting applications, the mailrooms of the post office could never handle the volume. We have to thank Trump for giving the name “sugar daddy” a much deserved respectable status.

We all love beautiful things and shy away from what is unattractive. Nature is very cruel because it selects certain people to be more attractive than others. It would be a fairer world if every person looked like a Hollywood star. It would be even better if outward appearances were not that important. But none of us can deny that we are influenced by a person’s good looks. Men in positions of power choose only beautiful women as wives and pass by the less than attractive. The “sugar daddy” thinks like those in power because he is influenced only by appearances. We should accept the way they both think because all men will imitate them if given the chance. Those of us that say: “inner beauty” is more important then external appearances are only fooling themselves. There is nothing as beautiful or important in this world as an extremely attractive woman. There are thousands of stories written about her loveliness. Few stories are written about inner beauty.

It is sinful to be cruel to people that are less than attractive. They should be respected. All of us no matter how attractive will one day lose our looks. I saw a photo of Ava Gardner in her later years; you would never believe that she was once labeled the most beautiful woman in the world. In the end nature evens everything out and we all get a chance to be homely. But the “sugar daddy” does not wait for Mother Nature to destroy what is beautiful. He buys the best that is available before it ripens. It is wrong to blame him for his wisdom.

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Jose

wtfitsnguyen asked:


doesn’t she know she would get her *** beat down badly. She needs to seriously look in the mirror to see how big she is compared to the other racers.

Dawn